It’s all about me

John Gerholt '"#KR-8142 BATTJERS GRUUIP October 20 M- lt’s All About Me The emotions that retlect our imbalance, such as anger, eonfiision, pain, and jealousy, are difiicult for every single human being. Most say that the two most dangerous emotions thatfsause the most life destroying consequences are anger andjealousy. Those who tool: another°s life because of anger or jealousy have a rage beyond their control; Both parties involved will be scarred for the rest of their lives, and the memory will i never go away. llvvill refer to these negative emotions as a disease. »We need to realize that if We let these diseases build up and erupt into negative actions, there will be consequences. We can all identify in some way hovr anger and jealousy keep us horn being able to present our true selves and from being aware of our “now” mode. These diseases are more than likely a reexperiencing of patterns from our past. Some feel desperately afflicted with the need to try and have tlrings our way. These diseases poison our clear view of What reality really is. Our quality of yvisdom to understand our life situations is lost. The beneficial path isto clear up our confiisions through the practice of self—control and meditation. Once we become aware of our individual disease or diseases, We can develop a purification process to overcome them. We will also come to see that every moment that arises is perceived through understanding before the situation occurs. We all create our own reality in relation to the situation at hand. The survival of one’s ego is most lilcely seeing everything -through the old experiences and traumas in eve1ybody’s life that has left them afraid. We replay evelything in life that has hurt us, not only in the past, lbuf also throughout all that We experience. But, most are afifliclea vnllh emotions as well as the truth of reality‘. Why eanft one just see a moment arise thafs uncontaminated? This could keep us from lnslanlly becoming" defensive to always be night; We all get eauglll up in our own distorted views- Glue ego always says, “Me firsf. ll want What is mine. And: what is yours is mine, too. lfs all alaoulz me!” The Winner of all battles, our ego gets fearful in order to challenge all that threatens it. However, one must finally realize that all successful relationships begin wit‘ ll communication as Well as being honest not only with your spouse, but with ones selfeeontrol. lt°s not" always about me; :lt’s about us as one. é‘@rAa/Z V . Smart Communications, Pa;—Doc John Gerholt KR~8142 SC|—Phoenix PO Box 33028 St. Petersburg, Fl. 33733